“Look at Me”: How to Attract Intentions that Align with Your Goals

@SelfCareFlexx
3 min readFeb 21, 2024

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In today’s digital circus, content cascades across platforms, splashing in every conceivable direction. Yet, this relentless beast emerges a subtle art to discerning what truly resonates. Within the first fleeting moments — be it a catchy title, the hook of a viral tune, or the mysterious workings of the algorithm — we’re often able to intuit whether a piece of content aligns with our inner selves. It’s a practice I’ve honed over time, pausing to question:

Is this nourishing my soul or casting shadows? Will it leave me uplifted or adrift in despair?

For me, the aim isn’t to be a beacon for every wandering eye but to connect with those few thousand souls who get it. Those who nod along, saying

“This speaks to me. Your principles mirror mine, or even if we diverge, I honor your perspective.”

Time is too precious to be squandered. If you’re going to disrupt my flow, make it count. Speak because you have something of substance to share, not just to fill the silence. What does this dialogue mean to you? It’s about shifting the focus from merely gathering eyeballs to fostering genuine connections, guided by shared values and intentions. Here’s what that means in the grand scheme:

  1. Quality over Quantity: The goal isn’t to amass a legion of followers or to dominate the conversation. It’s about forging real connections with those who genuinely resonate with your message and support your journey.
  2. Intentional Engagement: We’re after interactions that matter, that enrich and inspire, rather than those that merely distract or deflate. It’s about creating a space where meaningful exchanges flourish.
  3. Aligning with Purpose: The aim is to magnetize opportunities and collaborations that reflect our core values and vision, steering clear of the random and the irrelevant that may cross our paths.
  4. Filtering Out the Negative: By setting clear boundaries, we safeguard our space from the detrimental and the trivial, choosing instead to bask in positivity and encouragement.

In essence, it’s not about casting the widest net, but the most discerning one. It’s a call to attract not just any attention, but the right intentions — those that echo our values, amplify our purpose, and contribute to a narrative that’s both enriching and authentic.

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@SelfCareFlexx
@SelfCareFlexx

Written by @SelfCareFlexx

I write about Health, Wellness, and Spirituality, to live your best and most purposed-filled life. We all deserve freedom.

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