Deserve More: Reprogram Your Mind & Attract Abundance Through Self-Worth

@SelfCareFlexx
3 min readJan 30, 2024

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Listening to the Danny Morel Podcast, I encountered a thought-provoking statement: “we possess only what we believe we deserve.” This insight struck me profoundly, prompting me to immediately jot it down in my notes app under ‘Blog Ideas.’ Its truth resonates deeply with me; it’s a sentiment I’ve always believed in but never heard articulated so clearly. This philosophy guides my life; to think otherwise would be to obstruct my own blessings, a mistake I am determined to avoid.

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Understanding Self-Worth

I've been on this journey for a few years now. I understand my Self-worth do you?

Self-worth, the fundamental belief in our own value and significance, is the bedrock of our life choices and experiences. It’s the quiet voice whispering, “I am worthy of love, success, and happiness.” A strong sense of self-worth empowers us to make choices aligned with our values, pursue our dreams with confidence, and navigate challenges with resilience. Conversely, low self-worth can manifest as self-doubt, fear of failure, and settling for less than what we deserve.

Relationships:

The most significant manifestation of self-worth lies in the quality of our relationships. We tend to attract and accept treatment from others that aligns with how we view ourselves. Those who hold themselves in high regard foster healthy, respectful relationships. Conversely, individuals struggling with low self-worth may attract or tolerate unhealthy dynamics, settling for less than they deserve.

Your Beliefs Dictate Your Reality:

If we believe ourselves to be capable and deserving of success, we’re more likely to set ambitious goals, invest in our skillset, and persevere through setbacks. Consequently, we increase our chances of achieving success and reaping its rewards. Conversely, those who harbor limiting beliefs about their abilities and worth may subconsciously sabotage their own efforts, attracting experiences that reinforce their negative self-perceptions.

Those who believe they deserve abundance tend to make sound financial decisions, attract opportunities for wealth creation, and cultivate a mindset of prosperity. On the other hand, individuals struggling with low self-worth may grapple with financial scarcity, engage in self-sabotaging spending habits, and subconsciously resist financial abundance.

Changing Beliefs to Change Reality

The good news is that our beliefs are not set in stone. We can actively cultivate a more positive and deserving self-image through various practices:

Positive affirmations: Regularly repeating positive statements about your worth and capabilities can reprogram your subconscious mind and shift your self-perception.

My Cherished Affirmations:

I am safe, protected, and loved.

I lack nothing; all my needs are consistently met.

I am surrounded by wealth and health.

These blessings are my due; as a child of the divine, I am forever nurtured and supported.

The Universe is rooting for my success.

Therapy: Seeking professional guidance can help you uncover limiting beliefs and develop strategies for replacing them with empowering ones.

Mindfulness: Cultivating present-moment awareness allows you to observe your thoughts and feelings without judgment, creating space to challenge negative self-beliefs.

The Role of Gratitude and Positivity

Gratitude and a positive outlook play a crucial role in enhancing self-worth and attracting better circumstances. By focusing on what you appreciate in your life and adopting an optimistic mindset, you send powerful signals to the universe, opening yourself up to abundance and joy.

Your Worth Shapes Your World?

I hope this article provides a valuable framework for exploring the connection between self-worth and the external aspects of our lives. By understanding the power of our beliefs and actively cultivating a sense of deservingness, we can step into the architects of our own fulfilling realities.

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Written by @SelfCareFlexx

I write about Health, Wellness, and Spirituality, to live your best and most purposed-filled life. We all deserve freedom.

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