8 Life-Changing Lessons from the Dalai Lama for the Young Soul

8 Commandments from the Dalai Lama himself, repackaged for the millennial Spirit

@SelfCareFlexx
3 min readFeb 15, 2024
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Ever feel like no matter how hard you try, life’s struggles just love to stick around like that one clingy friend? Well, the Dalai Lama hits us with some real talk in “The Art of Happiness,” pointing out that a lot of our flaws come down to just not getting it. Yep, ignorance. It’s like we’re all wandering around a maze with a faulty GPS, bumping into walls of confusion and frustration.

But hold up, This book is like a secret roadmap out of the maze. I curated. 8 life-changing lessons from the Dalai Lama himself that could seriously switch up the game. We’re talking about getting to the heart of why we’re all so bummed out sometimes — our wonky views of life — and flipping the script to see the change we want to see.

Let’s unpack some mind-blowing wisdom that could help us see the tough stuff as both bearable and valuable. This is about finding that legit, deep-down happiness that doesn’t peace out the second things get rocky. Level up your life and find some joy in the mess.

  1. You’re the DJ of Your Life Vibes: Think of unwanted events like that one song you can’t stand. The Dalai Lama says if you don’t want it playing, don’t queue it up. Want a bop? Start curating those vibes by lining up the right tracks — or in life terms, the actions and choices that lead to the experiences you’re after.
  2. Happiness Is a DIY Project: Grabbing hold of genuine joy means renovating your mindset. It’s like flipping a fixer-upper; it takes effort from all angles. The Dalai Lama’s hinting that a little mental elbow grease can turn your brain from a shack of sorrows into a palace of peace.
  3. Choose Your Actions Like You Choose Your Netflix Show: Every action springs from either a chill or a chaotic mind. Chill leads to happiness; chaos, not so much. The Dalai Lama says discipline in your mental binge-watching (a.k.a. your thoughts) leads to an Emmy-worthy life script.
  4. Get Smart, Get Happy: Leveling up your knowledge game makes navigating the natural world — and your inner emo landscape — a whole lot smoother. It’s like upgrading from a flip phone to the latest smartphone; suddenly, everything works better.
  5. Anger Management 101: Believe it or not, wanting love and getting mad are two sides of the same coin. When our quest for connection gets blocked, frustration kicks in. The Dalai Lama advises to channel that big brain energy into compassion, turning potential Hulk moments into group hugs.
  6. Intelligence + Kindness = World Peace: Misusing our brainpower can lead to some pretty epic mess-ups. But balance that intellect with a heart full of compassion, and boom, we’re crafting a world that’s less about facepalms and more about high fives.
  7. Compassion: Your Social Superpower: Compassion isn’t just nice; it’s necessary. Cultivating it changes the game in how we connect, cutting through the awkwardness and fear that keep us playing solo. It’s like realizing everyone’s on your team, even if they haven’t got the jersey yet.
  8. Let Go to Grow: Clinging to the past is like refusing to upgrade your software — it just leads to bugs and crashes. Embrace change as the only constant, and you’ll find each update brings its own kind of better. It’s about realizing that no glitch is permanent, and every reboot brings a chance for an upgrade.

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Written by @SelfCareFlexx

I write about Health, Wellness, and Spirituality, to live your best and most purposed-filled life. We all deserve freedom.

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